Swingers R Us

Swingers Are Happy

2010-08-07T00:28:00.000-04:00

Scientific research on swingers in the USA has consistently found that swingers have better pair-bonds than monogamous couples. The most recent and most thorough research found swingers are happier in their relationships than the norm.

60% of swingers said that swinging improved their relationship and only 1.7% said it made their relationship less happy

Types Of Swinging

2010-08-02T07:04:00.001-04:00

Although swinging is generally thought of as occurring among couples, there are a number of swinging activities that may include (but are not limited to):

Exhibitionism: having sex with a partner while being watched.

Voyeurism: watching others have sex .

Soft Swinging or Soft Swap: kissing, stroking, or having oral sex with a third or fourth person. Soft swap may be in the form of a threesome, group sex, or the literal swapping of partners.

Full Swap: having penetrative sex with someone other than one's partner. Although this is the commonly understood definition of swinging, it is not necessarily the most common type.

Group Sex: An all-inclusive term for activities involving multiple partners in the same vicinity.

Spin The Bottle As Swinger Party Game

2010-07-31T06:52:00.001-04:00

One of the things that happens at many swinger house parties is that there is inertia among the guests. No one wants to be the first to get things started. So games can be a great icebreaker for those times. This one is spin the bottle adult style.

This game is an old classic. Lots of folks played this game as kids, for kisses, or sometimes for a cheap feel.

The more “grown up” version of the game still works the same in basic mechanics. It’s usually best to have everyone playing sitting on the floor.

All players sit in a circle. After determining who goes first, that player places a bottle on it’s side in the middle of the circle, and gives it a spin. Whoever the bottle neck points to (or closest to) removes an article of clothes. In the event that player has lost all his or her clothes already, that player must perform a “favor” for the spinner.

A simple game for getting your friends naked. That’s all there is to it. Play proceeds in a clockwise manner until everyone is naked.

Game Variations

There are a few possible variations on the game. Rather than proceeding in a clockwise manner, the person who last had the bottle point to them may spin next.

This game can be combined with other classics, such as Truth or Dare, wherein the person the bottle points to is asked the question, or given a dare by the spinner.

Stakes, of course are easily modified to any preference. Spin for kisses, spin for sexual favors, use your imagination.

No Swinging In Our Town

2010-07-29T23:18:00.001-04:00

A controversial social club that advertised on swingers web sites had its zoning application rejected by Emmaus, LeHigh County in Pennsylvania. Hundreds packed a meeting to hear the zoning hearing board's decision.

Many of the people opposed the social club because it was rumored to be a sex club for swingers. One resident said "We don't need this kind of garbage. In my opinion, it's like legalized prostitution. I don't want it in my neighborhood."

Swinging Big Business In U.S.

2010-07-27T01:12:00.000-04:00

Matt who works as a consultant at a Washington law firm told Reuters that he spends more than $10,000 a year to attend conventions, hotels and clubs where he and his girlfriend can have sex with other partners.

"Any other hobby that I was into at 40 years old is going to cost me $10,000," he told the newspaper. "Dude, I'm addicted to it, there is no doubt about it."

Swinging has turned the lust and passion into a multimillion dollar business. Lifestyles Organization, the nation's largest swinger services company, has annual sales of about $15 million.

Rick Conner, a swinger and author of an advice book for such couples, puts the number of swingers at 100,000 in the U.S. However, others have suggested the number is in the low millions

Naked Swingers Flee Fire

2010-07-24T01:40:00.002-04:00

Firefighters in Montreal are investigating the cause of a fire that forced those inside a swingers club in Montreal to flee in various states of undress. At the time of the fire, there were three employees and seven customers. Five of the clients were trapped in rooms on a second floor.

A fire department spokesperson was quoted as saying "They had sheets on them but they didn't have a lot of clothes on coming down (the ladder)."

Posting A Swinger Profile

2010-07-21T22:38:00.000-04:00

One of the best ways when considering joining a swinger site is to join up for FREE! Give the site a try and see how you like it. After joining a site, one of the mistakes often made by new swingers is rushing to get a profile up with little or no thought or planning.

One of the first things that you discover after hearing them say no one is looking at our profile is that the profile has no photos, poor headings and just a couple of lines for the description!

These Swingers Should have Remained Anonymous

2010-07-13T22:51:00.000-04:00

Cougars Have More Sex

2010-07-12T22:39:00.000-04:00

So do cougars have more sex? According to an article published in the July issue of Personality and Individual Differences, they do. The article points out that evolutionary forces also push women to be more sexual. The study done by a University of Texas psychologist found that women in their 30s and early 40s are significantly more sexual than younger women.

The article reports that women ages 27 through 45 are having more sexual fantasies than women ages 18 through 26 but also having more sex, period. In addition, they are more willing than younger women to have casual sex, even one-night stands.

Chinese Swinger Jailed

2010-07-11T14:48:00.000-04:00

A Chinese twice-divorced computer science professor has been sentenced to three-and-a-half years in prison for being a member of clubs that practiced group sex and partner swapping.. The fifty-three year old according to reports had been a member of informal swingers clubs that practiced group sex and partner swapping. He also supposedly organized and engaged in at least 18 orgies, most of them in the two-bedroom apartment in Nanjing where he lived with his mother. The sentence of three and a half years in prison is a severe penalty for a crime that the Chinese government calls “crowd licentiousness.”

Married Women Tend To Have Affairs With Married Men

2010-07-11T03:33:00.003-04:00

Married women tend to have affairs with married men - rather than with single men - for several reasons. Married women and married men have a similar amount of discretionary time available.

While much of their time may be committed to their families, both can secretly take a few hours to be together during the day, in the evening or on the weekend. Married women believe married men will not become overly dependent on them, that they won't tell and that they are less likely to have a sexually transmitted disease.

Origins Of Swinging

2010-07-08T17:37:00.003-04:00

Some say that the origins of swinging in the United States can be traced back to the 50s according to Terry Gould's "The Lifestyle: A Look at the Erotic Rites of Swingers" According to the author, swinging began among U.S. Air Force pilots and their wives during World War II. In this small community, the mortality rate among pilots was significantly high. Gould reports that a close bond between pilots arose, with the implication that the husbands would protect and care for all the wives as their own, both emotionally and sexually, if the husbands were away or lost.

The Reluctant Swinger Spouse

2010-07-07T23:58:00.001-04:00

One of the first things that should be done before deciding whether to swing or not is for a couple to sit down and discuss the pros and cons of getting into the lifestyle. The first overriding question should be whether both partners are comfortable with having sex with others in the lifestyle. One of the spouses should never attempt to emotionally force the other to join the swinging lifestyle.

As a swinging couple, we have witnessed the consequences of one spouse attempting to force the other spouse to be in the lifestyle. We have been at house parties where it is quite apparent that one of the spouses is not comfortable with the swinging lifestyle. In most cases, it is usually the male that is urging the reluctant female to swing.

Forcing a reluctant spouse to participate in swinging can lead to consequences that are not a pretty sight. We experienced first hand one such case of a couple whose husband was pushing his wife to participate in the lifestyle. The male had frequently emailed me and had indicated that he and his wife were eager to meet other couples. After a series of public meetings and emails, the couple came to our home. The bottom line is that the couple ended up leaving with all parties being upset.

As a side note, before meeting a couple, you should always attempt to ask questions in order to make sure that both spouses are interested in the lifestyle. If you sense reluctance, move on. Most in the lifestyle do not want drama.

Swinger "Dos"

2010-07-06T22:42:00.002-04:00

Swinger "Dos":

• Try new things, be open minded.

• Communicate with each other.

• Keep your partner's comfort and security in mind at all time.

• Don't rush: Don't do something just because everyone else around you is doing it. This is a lifestyle and you have your whole life to enjoy it! One step at a time.

• Set limits and Stick to it.

Where To Meet Swingers?

2010-07-06T00:42:00.001-04:00

* Good clubs will offer some form of education about swinging for beginners. Help with setting rules for first-timers.

* Information about the club or hosts before party night.

* Club and contact details.

* Clear pricing information.

* Details and policy about safe sex, sexual health screening (some clubs will insist on you providing a clean bill of health), about fees, about restrictions on gender, body size, numbers in attendance, alcohol, smoking etc.

* Regular events with activities. Look for clubs with different areas of fun from spa tubs to game rooms.

* A club policy of making newcomers feel welcome and informed about the rules and etiquette.

*Ensure that the club will protect your privacy and that there will be no publicity, photography, and filming without your express permission. Inquire if any part of the party area will be videotaped.

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Happy New Year !

2008-01-06T19:37:00.000-05:00

Meet Swingers For The New Year

Happy Holidays To All

2007-12-23T20:49:00.001-05:00

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Meet Swingers In 2008

2007-12-21T15:07:00.000-05:00

If you are looking for sites that are great for swingers, the Internet will be your very best friend. Many of the sites are like family - they trust people who come frequently. Many of the people who are at these sites are exactly like you and looking for the same thing you are looking for. Average, every day folks who are looking for some adult fun on the World Wide Web are the people that you will be rubbing elbows with at most of the sites. These people are your neighbours, your co-workers and people who live down the street from you - they can be anyone and they place their trust sparingly.

It’s a good idea to frequent one or two sites than trying to jump between more than that. As you surf through a web site for swingers, you will find that you will get to know the other regulars there and will know who is like you.

Advantages of joining a swinger site:

1. You can chat with other swingers in a safe and secure environment.

2. You can post pictures and see pictures of other swingers.

3. You can cam with other swingers on the site.

4. You can create profiles and read the profiles of others.

5. You can communicate with swingers nationwide as well as worldwide.

6. You can email other swingers using the internal email service of the swinger site.

7. You have the ability to contact couples, single women for a threesome or bi-experience, or single men.

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So Where Do You Meet?

2007-12-14T16:05:00.000-05:00

When initially meeting others offline, it's always best to meet on neutral grounds.Most enjoy meeting for dinner or something along those lines. That's a good starting point. Restaurants can be a bit crowded and the content of the conversation can be easily overheard. Some couples enjoy meeting at a local park. It's public but has a touch of privacy. When initially meeting offline, give those you are meeting with your full attention. This is respectful and will leave a lasting impression on any future plans.
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Swingers And Threesomes

2007-12-02T20:58:00.000-05:00

It's hard to find a man who hasn’t fantasised about a threesome and a hell of a lot of women are turned on by the idea, too. The problem is, for most, that they don’t know how to go about finding somebody to join them, either a single if they’re already part of a couple or vice versa.

The first thing to remember is that you need to know beforehand exactly who you’re looking for. If, for example, your wife isn’t interested in sex with another woman, there’s little point in answering ads from bi-sexual women. Similarly, if you’re a bi-sexual guy, you’ll want to find ads placed by couples who are looking for somebody who will service them both.

It might well be worthwhile placing an ad of your own, too. That way you can make it clear exactly who you’re looking for, how far you can travel, whether you can accommodate, etc etc. By being as clear as possible, there’s far less chance of meeting others who, when it cums to it, aren’t actually suitable at all.

When it comes to the two main types of threesomes, remember the following:
FFM: this means two females and a male and is the most common type of threesome. In most cases the females will be bi so it’s probably safe to assume so if nothing else is mentioned. It’s always worth asking to be sure, though.

FMM: you’ve probably guessed that this one means one female and two men. Although not as common as FFM, it’s a whole lot of fun and well worth experimenting with. The guys don’t have to be bi and in these cases, if they are they probably WILL mention it. Even if you’re mostly into FFM, you’ll probably find that most women will be only too pleased to be serviced by two guys… and a lot of male partners enjoy watching their wives/partners being given a good seeing to.
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Fetish Swingers

2007-11-24T15:30:00.000-05:00

Do you become sexually aroused at the mere thought of pretty little toes? Does thinking of a stinging, firm spanking get your juices flowing? If so, you have a FETISH. Becoming sexually aroused by an object or body part that is not typically an erogenous zone or an act such as a spanking is a fetish. Some people actually can't achieve an orgasm unless it involves their fetish. Some might say that living the swinging lifestyle is a fetish involving the sexual excitement of voyeurism and exhibitionism. Being in the lifestyle gives one the opportunity to develop and experiment with ones own fetish as well as help others achieve sexual satisfaction.
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Breaking The Ice

2007-11-19T20:50:00.001-05:00

Have you experienced an offline meeting where all involved sat around for hours making idle conversation while looking around the room and at each other wondering who will be brave enough to make the first move? Geeezzzz, that can be so awkward. Hopefully, there will be at least one person who will take the initative to make the first sexual contact. But, if not, here is your chance to be more informed and assume the role of that one person. In a couple swapping situation, try sexually arousing your partner first. Get the "ball rolling" comfortably with your own partner and once all involved are sexually aroused, then swap partners. This is much easier. Of course playing strip poker or strip uno works well also. Many women, ecpecially the shy ones, do not like sitting around, playing cards and getting naked. It helps to initially be aroused. a female joining a couple may want to simply watch them at first before becoming involved. The same scenario is adequate for a male joining a couple. Whatever ia agreed upon by all involved is the best way to proceed.
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Swingers And Cuckolds

2007-11-19T20:47:00.000-05:00

Cuckolding is a minor part of the swinging lifestyle but this niche seems to be increasing. It also seems to involve more interracial activity. Here is info regarding this niche:

WHAT IS A CUCKOLD?

The word "cuckold" probably comes from the practice of the cuckoo bird. The female cuckoo mates with an alpha-male, who then moves on to encounters with other females. The female then returns to her mate, and the two of them raise the babies which resulted from mom's "night on the town."

Traditionally, a (human) cuckold was the object of scorn and derision; when it was discovered that a man's wife had found fulfillment in another man's bed, she was an adulteress and he was her cuckold. It was often said that he "left with his tail between another man's legs."

The dictionary defines a cuckold as "a man with an unfaithful wife."

In the context of alternative lifestyles, the cuckold occupies a position somewhere between the traditional definition and that of "swingers." The difference with the first definition is that today's cuckold is both aware of his wife's "infidelity" and is sexually excited by it; the difference with the second definition is that "swingers" are mutually involved, or at least approach the sex bed as equals, which is not the case with a cuckold.

In plain English, a cuckold is a man who stands by and accepts his wife's infidelity, being sexually excited by her actions. He may have normal sexual relations with his wife part of the time, or he may accept that his wife has chosen another man to replace him completely in her sexual bed.
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Swing Clubs

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Swinger Wives

2007-09-10T17:30:00.000-04:00

These swingers are a group of housewives who all love cock and pussy too. They are real life swingers who meet guys for sex. Each wife runs monthly contests for members and the winner gets to meet the lady for a sloppy blowjob.
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Open Swinging

2007-08-29T16:23:00.000-04:00

There are different types of swinging and swingers. In open swinging, partners swap and have sex in the same room, or bed. This includes orgies and is great for exhibitionists and voyeurs, who can show off or just enjoy watching their partner play. Some people find open swinging allows for total release of the sexual desires and fantasies. In order for open swinging to be successful, none of the members of the group can be jealous.
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Swingers And Bukkake

2007-08-20T21:06:00.000-04:00

Bukkake is a group sex practice that features a woman being ejaculated on by multiple men.Theories as to the historical origins of bukkake vary, but one theory is that bukkake was popularized in Japan by Japanese adult video companies in the first half of the 1970s. The term Bukkake was popularized in the United States by radio host Howard Stern when he mentioned the website Bukkake.com on his nationally syndicated radio program. Controversy arose regarding the meaning of the word when station managers began censoring its use, inadvertently creating more interest.It is now a very popular sexual interest on sites and in swinger and other groups.Many swingers are now participating in Bukkake events and groups.
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What's Your Fetish?

2007-08-16T00:20:00.000-04:00

Do you become sexually aroused at the mere thought of pretty little toes? Does a woman in pantyhose or nylons turn you on?Does thinking of a stinging, firm spanking get your juices flowing? If so, you have a FETISH. Becoming sexually aroused by an object or body part that is not typically an erogenous zone or an act such as a spanking is a fetish. Some people actually can't achieve an orgasm unless it involves their fetish. Some might say that living the swinging lifestyle is a fetish involving the sexual excitement of voyeurism and exhibitionism. Being in the lifestyle gives one the opportunity to develop and experiment with ones own fetish as well as help others achieve sexual satisfaction experimenting with theirs. The next time you are in a grocery store, a mall or a restaurant and you witness someone acting differently with a big smile on their face, you may be witnessing sexual pleasure from a fetish fantasy that they came in contact with.
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Where Do You Swing?

2007-08-07T17:48:00.000-04:00

No one can tell you what type of event is the best to attend. That is something that you have to find out for yourself.

A good rule of thumb for beginners who are new to the lifestyle, and are not sure how far they want to go at one of these events, it is probably a good idea to attend an off-premise event just to get a "feel" for things.

On-premise events can be a lot more exciting and you can still go, even if you are new. Most people in the swinger lifestyle are some of the most respectful people you will meet. No one will pressure you to do anything you don't want to do.

Our best suggestion is no matter which one you try, be sure what type of event you are attending before-hand and then go with an open mind. Your only objective should be to have fun. If that is all you get out of the night then it is a night well spent.
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Scared Of MFM Threesome?

2007-08-02T15:55:00.000-04:00

Some males in the lifestyle are reluctant to try a MFM threesome. Are you a str8 male and interested in a MFM encounter? Is the only thing holding you back based on the fact that you are a str8 male? Many str8 males miss opportunites to have a MFM encounter based on the misconception that they must interact sexually with the other male. A MFM encounter is basically two men sexually pleasuring one woman as she pleasures them. Being a str8 or bi male really has nothing to do with it. When searching for this added partner/partners, being a str8 male, just be certain that those you choose are str8 as well.
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Is It About The Signs?

2007-07-20T19:07:00.000-04:00

Are you having a diificult time meeting other couples, or does it seem they do not want to approach you? Your gestures and posture may be saying more than you know. Body language is the single most important means of expressing ourselves.

We often think a lot about what we want to say to others,but forget about our posture language. Here are some body-language goofs.

Crossing your arms and legs:

The message:This gesture says you are closed to whatever the other person is saying: I wish you were not here or I am protecting myself.

The fix:Find something to do with your arms that is comfortable with out crossing them. Try one hand in your pocket; let your body get comfortable to feeling more open. Remember placing both hands in your pocket makes you look nervous and uninterested. Holding something in your hand (a glass) can also remind you not to cross your arms. Practice sitting with your arms relaxed, hands in your lap and legs side by side.
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Submission

2007-07-12T21:06:00.000-04:00

He gets to tell you what to do. Get your master to make you sit at his feet, naked, while he watches football - only when the game finishes will he make love to you.
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Enhance Her Pleasure With Toys

2007-07-08T22:17:00.001-04:00

While many women love sex toys there are quite a few who either never though they needed to try them, or are just too embarrassed to give them a go. The main thing to focus on is that sex toys are suppose to bring more fun and pleasure into the bedroom, not replace a lover.

One of the best ways to bring toys into the bedroom is to let her know you’re looking for ways to enhance her pleasure rather inferring that you’re bored with your love life together (even if you are). Spend time doing some research (taking her sexual needs into account) and then show her a few toys that you’ve earmarked to get her feedback on. Great toys to start with are those that help with G-spot stimulation for more intense female orgasms.

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Domination/Submission Fetish

2007-07-03T19:57:00.000-04:00

In the swinging community, there are a sizeable number of swingers that are into the more kinky aspects of swinging. One of the sexual fetishes is that of domination/sumission. To a lot of people's amazement, most women dominate and most guys submit. A lot of women say they love to order their men around in bed like slaves and spank them, smack them, and even penetrate them with a strap-on.

Guys, on the other hand, enjoy submitting to women and being told what to do. I guess most of them are probably tired of performing all the time. Everything mentioned that the women do -- well, the men enjoy having those things done to them. Welcome to the new millennium.
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Leather, Rubber, Vinyl, Latex Fetish

2007-06-29T19:35:00.000-04:00

One of the most popular sexual fetishes has to do with leather and rubber. Men seem to love material; perhaps not the actual feel of it, but the rather pornographic quality it gives to a sexual encounter. Although men look to settle down with a sweet woman, most will forever have a fixation with that "bad girl" look.

"Watching a woman move around in anything tight and shiny is a tease in itself," says one gentleman. Another man told me that his girlfriend's entire wardrobe consists of latex and leather.
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Sexual Fetishes

2007-06-26T21:30:00.000-04:00

The word fetish originally meant "charm," and it originates from the 15th century Portuguese word feitico , which means false power, object or charm. For example, when the Portuguese explored West Africa and encountered native religions, they called whatever talisman (totems, carvings, beads) they revered a fetish.

To the Portuguese in those days, the fetishists were those who worshiped the unusual. Later on, however, the implication of the word took on a whole different meaning.

First, a fetish involves the transfer of power from an original source onto a substitute. Second, a fetishist is someone who operates outside the circle of what is characteristically considered normal. Yeah right, what is normal nowadays?
There are many diverse kinds of fetishes, depending on the object being fetishized. Inanimate fetishes come in three varieties -- media, form and animate.

In a media fetish, material is what is obsessed over. Media fetishes include rubber, leather, latex, and silk.

With a form fetish, it's the shape of the object that has great significance. Stiletto heels, knee-high boots and lingerie fall into this category.

Feet, hair, butts, breasts, and all that good stuff are also considered fetishes, but since these objects are human, they're called "animate" fetishes.
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Husbands Watching Wives Getting Pounded By Strangers Very Popular

2007-06-22T21:33:00.001-04:00

Exhibitionism is an art form and something that one is born to enjoy; whether you like to display yourself or watch someone else display. A form of that is men that love to watch their wives getting fucked by other men or strangers. The technical term is mixoscopia in which gratification is obtained by the sight of the object of one's desire engaged in sexual intercourse with another. Simply put, husbands watching their wives getting pounded by strangers. There are lots of sites devoted to this phenomena and swinger sites to meet MILFs and/or men that love to do this.
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Bi-Sexuality Large Part Of Lifestyle

2007-06-19T20:33:00.000-04:00

The Janus Report on Sexual Behavior, published in 1993, showed that 5 percent of men and 3 percent of women consider themselves bisexual and 4 percent of men and 2 percent of women considered themselves homosexual.

Sigmund Freud theorized that every person has the ability to become bisexual at some time in his or her life. He based this on the idea that enjoyable experiences of sexuality with the same gender, whether sought or unsought, acting on it or being fantasized, in social upbringing becomes an attachment to his or her needs and desires.

Some studies, notably Alfred Kinsey's Sexual Behavior in the Human Male (1948) and Sexual Behavior in the Human Female (1953), have indicated that the majority of people appear to be at least somewhat bisexual. The studies report that most people have some attraction to either sex, although usually one sex is preferred.

It is assumed although not confirmed that bi-sexuality among women is greater in the swinging lifestyle. The majority of females in our swinging experince have participated in female on female or bi-sexual experiences.
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MILFs Gone Mainstream

2007-06-16T14:08:00.000-04:00

The term MILF has gone mainstream. Apparently the idea of shagging mommy was introduced to the post-(The) Graduate generation in 1999, when Stifler's mom deflowered a grateful teen in American Pie. Now we have the books (The Hot Mom's Handbook; Confessions of a Naughty Mommy) the T-shirts (Britney in her Milf-in-training), the TV shows (Desperate Housewives, The Real Housewives of Orange County, there's even a US pilot in development entitled MILF & Cookies), Queen MILF Demi and her crown princeling, Ashton, and many others.There is no question that there is a MILF obsession and we all want to be part of getting a MILF.
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Sex Toys Part Of Swinging

2007-06-12T21:48:00.000-04:00

According to a sex survey, 24 percent of Americans use sex toys on a regular basis.

That's an increase of 4 percentage points since the last survey was taken.

The increase in the popularity of erotic accessories is especially noticeable with women -- 23 percent of ladies own sex toys, compared to only 17 percent with the last survey.
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Interracial Swinging Large Segment Of Lifestyle

2007-06-08T16:39:00.001-04:00

Interracial swinging is another facet that's open to those in the swinger lifestyle. As in normal society, there are also a vast mixture of ethnicicities within the swinger community. This offers swingers the opportunity to engage in interracial sex encounters without the judgemental eyes society places on those outside of the community.

Many times women have fantacized about having sex with a black or latino male or vise versa. There are also men that like watching and/or participating when other races are involved. Within a swingers community its just like any other sex encounter ... its all for the fun of having sex! I had one veteran offer me this piece of advice: If it can help you explore the erotic sexual side of yourself, and there are no adverse reasons - why not just have fun and try everything?!
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Weeding Out Fakes In Swinging Lifestyle-Part 2

2007-06-05T22:05:00.001-04:00

Things that should raise a question or doubt when checking profiles:

No picture on the profile -- If there is no picture on the profile, ask them to email you one -- if they are not willing to do that, just move on.

Refusal to answer simple questions -- They respond with nothing but demands and offer nothing in return.

A low reply percentage rate -- Anything below 60 % could be an indication that you are not dealing with a serious swinger.

No recommendations -- No one knows them or has played with them because they either don't exit or they never play. They are time wasters.

The ad sounds like a porn ad -- If it sounds too good to be true, it probably isn't.

Pictures are too perfect -- Pictures look like they have been taken off a porn site.

Ads are too short -- That doesn't mean that people aren't real. It just means that they didn't put enough thought or effort into their ad and may not be serious about getting responses.

Perfect profile with pictures of a couple -- Be aware if the husband says he
has permission from the wife to play alone or the wife is on vacation in Amsterdam and won't be back until 2007.

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Weeding Out Fakes In Swinging Lifestyle

2007-06-01T23:31:00.000-04:00

Swinger sites are a great place to meet other swingers.

Unfortunately, there are fakes on all these sites. Before meeting someone from the internet in person, some helpful steps might be a telephone conversation or seeing them live on a web cam. Telephone conversations are an excellent way of gauging a couple's character and personality. If the couple contacts you first, they shouldn't have a problem giving you a phone number if you ask nicely. Ask them what is the best time to call and speak to both of them. Be cautious if the wife is never around. It could be a single guy or even a married guy, just trying to get lucky.

Live web cams are another excellent means of verifying that you are dealing with a real people. Web cams are very inexpensive, easy to install and can save you a lot of time.

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Swinging Lifestyle Becoming Popular All Over U.S.

2007-05-29T18:35:00.000-04:00

In North Scottsdale, Arcadia and Ahwatukee, swinging is allegedly all the rage. As in Arizona, the swinging lifestyle is becoming more popular all over the United States.

"We're the same as any other group of friends who get together, have a potluck," says one swinger. "We happen to swim naked or sit in the hot tub naked or occasionally a couple will drift off to a bedroom here or there."

Charlene and Tom both have been married before. They are both busy professionals by day. By night, they are part of a growing group of so-called suburban swingers.
"I think what would surprise the general public is that there are so many of us," she said. "Soccer moms, doctors, attorneys."

Some are even well-known members of the community including celebrities, politicians, sports figures, actors and media personalities.

"I believe nowadays people are saying I want freedom of sexuality," says one marriage counselor. "Do you realize 80 percent of all marriages end in divorce? Eighty percent.
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Swinging Etiquette- Part 2

2007-05-26T19:45:00.000-04:00

Practice Safe Sex

It is up to us to protect ourselves as well as our partners. With the present concern over sexually transmitted diseases the use of condoms should not offend anybody.

Say Thanks
The social courtesy of a 'Thank-You Note' or phone call to someone whose hospitality you enjoyed means a lot to most people, and they will surely remember you when planning their next event.

Respond To Invitations
RSVP means please reply to the invitation. The most frustrating part of hosting, is people who are discourteous enough not to respond, Good etiquette and good social courtesy require you respond.

Don't Arrive Empty Handed
When you go to someone's home for a party, ask if there is something you can bring.

Be Prepared
Carry a small overnight bag for lingerie or robe, hairbrush, comb, toothbrush, cologne, intimate cleansing articles, condoms, etc.

Alcohol and Drugs
Most do not use drugs, although some of us drink socially. A few drinks are nice to help you "relax". Over-indulging may hamper your physical abilities, as well as offend or turn other people off to you.

Be Good Hosts
When you have people coming to your home, put clean sheets on the beds; keep plenty of clean washcloths and towels available. Show your guests through the house.

Responding To Ads
A first letter should include a brief description of yourselves, where you saw the ad, your ad number and your social and sexual interests. An SASE should be included with your original reply as many couples receive a large number of replies which can be costly to reply to. All replies to an ad should be answered in two weeks even if it is a No.

Above All Enjoy Yourself
Most important, have a good time, act out your fantasies, explore your own sexuality and enjoy everything this lifestyle has to offer with enthusiasm, laughter and a positive attitude. You are there to have the best of times and to share the uninhibited enjoyment with those who have discovered a new dimension in their lifestyles. Don't hesitate to introduce yourselves to other people. You'll find them eager to welcome you.
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Swinging Etiquette - Part 1

2007-05-22T21:11:00.000-04:00

As in any social activity, there are expected rules of conduct in swinging. Following the rules are an effective way to make yourself welcome within the swinging community.

The Golden Rule

The Golden Rule in swinging is the right of anyone to say "No". Improper handling of a situation, however, can lead to a lot of hurt or bad feelings. The swing world accepts this rule that everyone has the right to say "No" to anyone at anytime. It should be done with a simple "No, thank you". Never give an explanation, because that is what causes the problems and the pain.

Be Friendly

Whether or not you are personally interested in swinging with someone, be polite.

Be Courteous

Courteously is how we all want to be treated, with kindness, thoughfulness, understanding and sensitivity. Courtesy is treating people the way we want to be treated.

Be Clean and Fresh

Nothing turns a person off faster and more effectively than an unclean body or unfresh breath.

Respect Others

Not everyone is comfortable in all situations. Keep your eyes open for signs that your partner, as well as others, are relaxed and enjoying themselves. If it is obvious that things are not working out, remain polite and courteous.

Don't Be Pushy

Remember that freedom of choice is every individual's right in swinging and respecting that right is only common courtesy. Learn how to handle a No, thank you graciously. If you are interested in swinging with someone, let them know in an inviting way. Everyone has the right to say "NO" at all times, to anyone, without explanation. Do not ever forget that.

Do Only What You Consider Fun

Do not allow yourself to become sexually involved with anybody that you are not interested in. You are in the lifestyle to enjoy yourself, so only do what you want, when you want and with whom you want.
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Why Your Wife Won't Swing

2007-05-19T20:57:00.000-04:00

A woman with this complex isn't sure how to feel about herself, including her sexuality, in relation to the world, much less her spouse. How is your spouse supposed to be sexy and be a mother to your children? How is she supposed to spend our hours having wild sex with a man and still be respected in the morning? And how is your wife going to engage in group sex and still be honored for her fidelity?

These are things that she will consider in making any sexual decision. So if you're hung up on how to get her to agree, stop right there because the effort will take the wind out of your sails. It's ultimately up to her, and she'll continue to say no until she feels sexually liberated.

Hopefully it's only a matter of time before she frees herself enough to swing. But even if she continues to decline, with your renewed understanding you and your partner will experience a satiable upsurge in your sex life.
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Places To Meet Swingers - Part 2

2007-05-15T20:42:00.000-04:00

With the clubs and socials, you can hook up immediately, if you want, but there is also the possibility of being overwhelmed by too many invitations or too many people or even the possibility of rejection or having to reject others. It can be quite embarrassing or uncomfortable to go to a club or social get-together with many swingers and swinging couples and not find anyone you want to share time with, or worse…be rejected.

For that reason, it’s a good idea, at least until you are more comfortable with swinger’s clubs and social get-togethers, to go to the function with another couple already in the lifestyle, perhaps people you met through a personals site. This way, you don’t have the pressure of trying to find people with whom to hook up, and are assured a chance at having some fun later, even if you don’t meet someone new.

Once you have decided you are comfortable with venturing out into the exciting swinger’s lifestyle take your time to explore the various avenues of swinger’s entertainment available in your area and then take the first step to meeting others with the same desires as your own. The most important part is to have fun, even if you don’t meet others to hook up with right away. Eventually, you will. When you do—happy swinging!
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Places To Meet Swingers - Part 1

2007-05-11T18:33:00.000-04:00

There are different types of clubs and activities for swingers, and it’s important to know which type you prefer before you attend one. There are off-premises clubs, on-premises clubs, social get-togethers or socials, meet and greet parties, and private swinger’s parties held in people’s homes.

Swinger’s clubs are much the same as a regular nightclub. The one main difference is the desires of the clientele to hook up with other swinger’s for sexual exploration. Of course, an on-premises club is a bit different than anything you might experience at a traditional nightclub, because sexual activity is allowed on the premises of the club. An off-premises club does not allow sexual activity at the club. This is why it is important you are aware of the type of club you will be attending so that you and your partner are most comfortable.

Social get-togethers are another way to meet others in the swinging lifestyle. Socials are held at a hotel in the banquet hall or a meeting room. Socials are like parties, sometimes with music and dancing, dinner or snacks, and drinks. The purpose of a social get-together is to meet other swingers in a social setting with no pressure or expectation of sexual activity. If you meet some people with whom you are interested in pursuing pleasurable activities outside of the social, the advantage here is you are only a few feet away from a hotel room!

Meet and greets are more like personal get-togethers by groups of swingers who are looking for fun activities outside of sex with others who share the same lifestyle. While people who get together at a meet and greet party can hook up for sex afterward, the main intent is more for socializing.

There are positives and negatives to any way you choose to meet people and share your time with them, and looking for swingers is no exception. Personals sites are great because they allow you to exchange photos, communicate via email, and eventually telephone before you commit to hooking with others. The downside is that it takes time to wait for emails and respond back and forth, so hooking up immediately is not best accomplished with personals
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Swingers Vocabulary

2007-05-08T17:57:00.000-04:00

When emailing or talking with other swingers, it is always helpful to understand the vocabulary used by swingers:

KING OF HEARTS — A position involving one male who is being kissed on the lips by a female while simultaneously being fellated by another female. The term is based on the head-at-both-ends illustrations on playing cards.

DISCREET — Not likely to do or say anything that might reveal a swinger's identity.

DISCRETION — An indication of the need for caution so that children or others who may open mail or answer the telephone will not be offended or made aware of the swinging activity.
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Posting Your Pics In Swinger Ads

2007-05-04T17:32:00.000-04:00

Posting your not-so-PG13 pictures online has been something that everybody has thought about very carefully before hitting that "Upload" button. There are more and more people who do not mind having their pictures out there for others to see. Many even go out of their way to have others look at them in their birthday suits.

That's why picture posting message boards and "rate my looks" kind of web sites have been gaining so much popularity in the recent years. However, many still do not care for their explicit pictures floating around on the Internet without their permission or even knowledge. But how does one protect their privacy without deserting themselves from the swinging community online where people will not meet with you unless they know what you look like?
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Sex Kit For Swingers

2007-05-01T21:00:00.000-04:00

Put together an “essentials kit”: For times you go to swinger parties,conventions, or other events, take a black bag with everything you need to help get you through the night. Inside have your room key (or anyone else’s you may happen to come across), some money for cocktails,condoms (at least three different sizes!), a small bottle of lube(very important), her silver bullet (in case of emergencies),Tylenol or Excedrin Quicktabs (someone always needs these),mints and of course a little blue diamond shaped pill (hey, ifit works for Bob Dole).

You can accessorize your kit by adding rabbit fur, vibrators, dildos,or whatever else might make your evening memorable. You can remember these motto’s: “be prepared (Boy Scouts) or “adapt & improvise” (Marines) but Tess prefers: Semper Paratus, which is Latin for the Coast Guard’s motto “always ready.”
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Threesomes - Part 3

2007-04-27T16:16:00.000-04:00

Rule 4: Be careful with penetration

Penetration is what novelist Tom Robbins calls "that old show-stopper." It automatically forms a serious bond between you and one woman, leaving the other out. For this reason, use penetrative sex only when you're sure both women are comfortable with it.

Your natural inclination will be to pay close attention to the woman you're having sex with, but you mustn't focus on her entirely. This is about the three of you, so keep that ideal close at hand. Kiss and touch the other woman, look her in the eye, and talk to her if the mood is appropriate.

Be aware that you may feel overwhelmed with pleasure if you're thrusting into one woman and kissing and caressing another, meaning that you might climax more quickly than expected. Take it slowly and pace yourself.

And don't get so excited that you lose track of the women: all three of you should be sexually satisfied and even if you achieve climax first, you must do everything you can to bring your two partners to orgasm.

Rule 5: Be safe

Condoms are a necessity, obviously. Semen, vaginal fluid and menstrual blood transmit STDs, so use one specific hand to pleasure one specific woman and use the other hand on the other woman -- and keep it that way. You must never alternate.

Likewise, if you're having intercourse with both women, you must also use a separate condom with each partner. As well, dental dams are a good precaution for oral sex. Lubricate the side that you place against a woman's skin for better sensation.

It's not a relationship

Afterward, lie around with both women in post-coital bliss. But remember, it's not a relationship. Which means that the third person likely shouldn't sleep over. It may seem like a great idea in the moment, but prolonging a threesome is a recipe for total disaster.

Be reassuring to your girlfriend or wife. You've had fun, but it's only pleasure and experimentation. Tell her that she turns you on, that seeing her being pleasured by another woman aroused you, and that while you enjoyed yourself, there's no one for you but her. She's your primary concern, so let her know it, and you may well have more threesome adventures in the future.
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Finding Single Females In The Swinging Lifestyle

2007-04-23T19:54:00.000-04:00

Why is it so hard to find a single female to join us?The answer to this question is fairly simple; supply and demand. There just aren't many single females in the lifestyle. Most females that are in the lifestyle are half of a couple and many couples don't like to split up to play. The other side of the problem is that single females (bi in particular) are the most sought after portion of the swinging population. While there are more than enough single males to go around, most single females either don't know about the lifestyle or just aren't interested. Most of those that are involved in the lifestyle were brought in by a previous boyfriend or husband.
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Soft Swinging

2007-04-23T19:49:00.000-04:00

Soft swinging is an "anything but" kind of thing. It can be inclusive of all sexual activities up to, but excluding sexual intercourse. This is usually referred to as "soft- swapping," but soft swinging could also include watching and same room sex. Swingers all have their own lines drawn as to what is acceptable in their individual relationships, but this one is pretty clear cut, and a very common line at that.
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Threesomes - Part 2

2007-04-16T13:56:00.000-04:00

Rule 2: Be as giving as you can

Although you may be hoping that the two women will give you 100% of their attention, realistically, they're there to please each other as well, so you may end up feeling ignored.

The best way to approach this situation is to forget your feelings for a moment and try to be as generous with your hands and mouth as you can.

Pleasure in one-on-one sex goes back and forth, but in a threesome it's more of a cycle that moves from person to person. So be patient; focus on turning both women on and the attention will come back to you.

Whatever pleasure you get in a threesome is a treat, so instead of expecting anything in particular (like getting oral sex from both women at once), enjoy everything that comes your way.

Keep your hands moving and make sure you know when to penetrate

Rule 3: Keep yourself busy

When you find that both women are busy pleasuring each other and you have nothing to do, keep yourself busy. Take matters into your own hands and find something to do.

Caress the breasts, thighs or vagina(s) of one or both women, kiss their backs or necks, or give oral sex to one if she's in a position that allows you to (believe me, this will redirect attention toward you in a hurry).

If you decide instead just to pleasure yourself for a little while, don't feel bad; the action will come back to you soon enough.
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Threesomes- Part 1

2007-04-12T17:27:00.000-04:00

There's a whole lot of information on how to arrange a threesome, but there's very little about what you should do once you're in one.

Threesomes are not like regular sex, they require both imagination and sensitivity. If you plan on having a threesome, you need to go into the situation with some idea of what you're going to be doing.

Understanding these basic rules will help you avoid some common mistakes so you can get the most out of your threesome. There are various types of threesomes that you can enjoy, but the most common is with two women, one of whom is likely your bisexual girlfriend or wife. These are the basics on how to handle such a situation.
Rule 1: Establish the rules

You're going to have sex with two women and all three of you have your own rules and limits, so understanding and respecting each other's comfort levels should be a top priority.

Because your relationship with your woman will likely be affected by this new experience, you need to be absolutely clear on which acts she's comfortable with -- and what to avoid doing -- in advance. She may tell you that she's uncomfortable with the idea of you penetrating another woman or even pleasing another woman orally.

You must respect her limits. Remember; each woman may suddenly feel jealous, so try your best not to shut either woman out.

As well, you may end up feeling jealous if you're not the center of attention. Just keep in mind that the object of the game is to share sex between three people.

Also keep in mind that although some people try to drink their way to bravery for a threesome, drunken sex usually turns out badly. If you want to have a cocktail or two to loosen up, that's fine, but no more. You want to be at peak performance.
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How To Enjoy A Swinger Convention-Part 2

2007-04-10T17:58:00.000-04:00

4. Speaking of hospitality suites, some conventions have special "Hospitality Suites." What are these suites you ask? A place to get a snack? Sometimes. A place to meet people after the dance? Yes, and more. Much, much more. Hospitality suites are areas that most would consider the "on-premise" party area. You can head to this area to play, watch, be watched and best of all you don't have to get your own room dirty. So grab your "essentials kit" (more on this later), a sense for adventure and head to the hospitality suites.

5. Smile: This is the single greatest piece of advice we can give you. We have seen so many nervous couples sitting by themselves, wishing someone would come up and talk with them, but they are unknowingly putting people off with an unapproachable look. Just smile. It's so simple, yet it will make you so much more approachable. We are looking for fun, happy and secure couples, if you are looking sad, we'll move on until we see someone smiling and having a great time.

6. You'll get out of this, what you put into it: Talk to each other about what you expect from this weekend and then "go for it". The minute you arrive, the clock starts to tick away. You only have a few short days to have fun and then the convention is over. Get out, meet people, participate in silly games and contests and have some fun. The party won't come to you.
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How To Enjoy A Swinger Convention-Part 1

2007-04-07T13:49:00.000-04:00

1. Conventions rule! Conventions are the best place for beginners to "test the waters," because of the informative seminars and the sheer number of experienced couples to meet and get to know. They are also the best place for experienced couples to make new acquaintances, catch up with old friends and have a venue to party all weekend long.

2. Education: Conventions offer a wide range of seminars from "dealing with jealousy," STD's, erotic massage, photography, polyamory, BDSM, building communication, and on and on. You can't find this kind of a resource at a local club or resort. Make sure you schedule time to attend some (or many) of these great seminars.

3. Forget the education, let's party: Hey, seminars are great but we're here to party! With dances, contests, entertainment and of course hospitality rooms, there are so many choices for a couple to have a fun time, the only real question is when do we sleep?
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Sex Fantasy:Sex Slaves

2007-04-04T21:38:00.000-04:00

Why it appeals to you: Having someone at your sexual beck and call has obvious benefits. You don't have to worry about the "no, you first honey" niceties of sex; it's all about your pleasure, and your pleasure alone.

Why he'll love it too: Something happens to women during this scenario; they start suggesting things they wouldn't dare during "normal" lovemaking. Who wouldn't love a wild woman in his bed?

What you'll need:

A leather jacket worn over black underwear

Stockings and a push-up bra

Knee-high or thigh-high boots

A blindfold, scarves or old stockings to tie him up

A wooden spoon or hairbrush
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Swinger FAQs

2007-04-02T21:25:00.000-04:00

So now we've met and want to get down to business. What from here?

Don't be shy, ask. Make arrangements. Talk between the couples. What are the rules? Same room, different rooms, etc. Once the ground rules are set, go for it. Just remember, NO means NO, at any time.
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What Female Swingers Enjoy

2007-03-31T23:01:00.000-04:00

1. Sensuality
For most women being touched all over their body, including being passionately kissed is a great turn on.

2. Massage Oils, Lubricants and Warming oils
Women often enjoy the feeling of being pampered and the increased sensation that lubricants and massage oils bring.

3. Legs Over Your Shoulders
This position allows a woman to have her g-spot better accessed and is quite pleasureful.

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Fellatio Techniques

2007-03-29T18:53:00.000-04:00

One of the keys to good fellatio is to spice up the routine every once in a while with a new position or technique. Without being a contortionist, you can still wriggle yourself into countless positions from which you can please your man. Make sure you're both comfortable, then get busy...

Standing The classic technique requires you to be on your knees or sitting directly in front of him with your mouth at penis level...

Sitting Have him sit comfortable in a chair, couch or even on the floor. Place your body between his legs with your head at penis level...

Laying Have him lay comfortably on his back on the bed or floor. Approach from between the feet and position yourself so that your mouth is at penis level...

69 A tremendous sharing of erotic interplay occurs during this wonderful position. It's easy to be distracted by him going down on you, so make sure you give extra attention to his penis as he brings you closer and...
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25 Ways To Be Naughty But So Very Nice!

2007-03-29T18:48:00.000-04:00

3. Surprise her with her favorite flowers on the nightstand. Set the scene for sex.

4. Have an erotic escapade. Enjoy sex under a blanket in the park.
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25 Ways To Be Naughty But So Very Nice!

2007-03-27T21:56:00.001-04:00

1. Whisper sexy words to your lover. When a move he or she makes, the way he kisses you, how fast or slow he's going, makes you feel good, tell him. Whisper, "You feel so good inside me," or "Moving like that drives me craaazzzy!" when his rhythm starts to send you over the edge, or "Your tongue rules!" when he reaches the right spot. If he's thrusting too soft, don't hesitate to throw out a "Harder! Harder!" Guide him with your words: "Your tongue feels great, ummm, good, right there!"

2. Learn to have fun with sex toys. Keep your titillating playthings in a sex tool box beside the bed; super soft, sensual, and slippery lubricants, a silk blindfold, fuzzy handcuffs, various vibrators, incense, scented candles and your favorite make-out music CD. Your voice is also a versatile sex toy. It can seduce, soothe, control and keep your partner excited all the way to orgasm.
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Why Your Wife Won't Swing

2007-03-25T19:56:00.000-04:00

A woman may be torn between envisioning herself as a virtuous or a dirty. And if the media isn't enough, she may have been raised with the notion that men, in particular, make these distinctions when considering a partner. So add all these factors into the mix, and we get a complex. This complex is the most likely culprit for your wife's reluctance to swing.

This dilemma could be the foundation for many of your wife's insecurities. It's almost inescapable. In many commercials that you see on TV featuring baby products, e.g., wipes, diapers, and lotion, advertisers present a constant struggle between the "mother look" and the "sexy look". Much like a woman in a short skirt and high heels pushing a stroller. These are prime examples of this complex. What do these images say to you? And more importantly, what are do they say to your wife?
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Part 3- Posting Your Pics In Swinger Ads

2007-03-24T20:26:00.000-04:00

If you do decide to share your X-rated pictures with others without censoring your faces - it is a good idea to get to know the recipients of your photos. You may also want to use message / e-mail services that allow you to re-call your own emails from the recipient's Inboxes. So, if you have sent a picture to another member who you now realize is not someone that you want to have your picture - you can remove that picture from that member's possession. Another way of protecting your picture while sharing them with others is to have a disclaimer over the image stating something like "Not for reproduction" or "Property of …". Make sure it is in the middle of the image, so that nobody can cut it out of there without destroying most of the image itself.
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Part 2- Posting Your Pics In Swinger Ads

2007-03-21T22:36:00.000-04:00

One of the most popular ways to protect your identity while still looking sexy for your potential playmates is to blur out your face on the picture. Graphic software like Photoshop allows you to do so very easily and in many creative ways. If you do not have that kind of software or do not care to learn how to use one - you can always leave out your faces from the shot when taking the picture. Some people will turn their heads away, some will have a shadow falling on their face, and some simply cover it up with large shades, a hat, or simply their own hair (if it's long enough).
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Posting Your Pics In Swinger Ads

2007-03-20T21:32:00.000-04:00

Swinger Etiquette

2007-03-19T17:37:00.001-04:00

Be smart and not to engage in any unlawful activity that would harm the reputation of other swingers as a group.

Always be friendly and warm with your swing partners. Be understanding that there is a type of emotional involvement, which is properly reserved for a spouse or "primary significant other."

Lastly, remember to show respect for the personal attitudes and feelings of other swingers.
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Cuckolds and Cream Pies

2006-05-04T22:32:00.000-04:00

Whether it is submission or humiliation, licking another man's semen from your wife's pussy is #1 on the hit parade. Why is that? I believe it is a combination of every male taboo rolled into one:

- Men aren't supposed to eat cum (well, straight men aren't...)

- Men are supposed to guard their wives' chastity/purity with their lives.

- Ejaculating in a woman is a strong symbol of possession, and seeing another man's semen in your wife's most private, intimate place is a clear sign that you are not the sole (or even primary) person in her life... or at least in her body.

- If there is any single thing that "proves" that your wife was unfaithful, it is the sight of semen dripping from her vagina, when you know you didn't put it there. Pornographers may be able to substitute liquid soap in pictures, but when you're face to face with the real thing, you know it.

- The only way for that semen to get in your wife was for her to bring him to orgasm. A creampie says, "Not only did she cuckold you, but she did it very well."

- Semen does not taste good; if you're lucky, it does not taste terrible. Licking it up - especially if it is a large amount - is very, very difficult, and emphasizes the humiliating nature of what your wife is doing to you.

- If you have to do it in front of the lover, while your wife is holding and kissing him, you will have your "place" made perfectly clear to all involved - especially if the two of them laugh at your difficulty swallowing all of it!

For all these reasons, most cuckolds find creampies to be among their most powerful fantasies and most erotic experiences.
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Cuckolding and Swingers- Part 7

2006-05-03T16:09:00.000-04:00

WATCHING OR WAITING?

There is a lot of discussion about which is more erotic: watching your wife in bed with another man, or waiting at home (or anywhere) while she goes off with him. Generally, the cuckold has little say in this; his wife will probably be more comfortable with one than the other, and that is what she will choose.

Seeing sex happen in front of you, and realizing - over and over again - that the woman you see in the throes of passion is your wife, is breathtaking. Even when you engage in sex, you don't get to witness it; seeing a man's penis slide in and out of a vagina is stimulating enough, but when it is your own wife's vagina, it is overwhelming. And watching (and hearing) orgasms... the same thing, in spades!

On the other hand, if the mind is the most powerful sex organ, there is much to be said for the cuckold who sits at home and masturbates, wondering what his wife and her lover are doing now (and now, and NOW, and...). If you thought teenage boys jerk off a lot, I assure you that they are amateurs compared to cucky in the sixth hour of waiting!
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Cuckolding and Swingers- Part 6

2006-05-02T22:24:00.000-04:00

"Don't Touch Me"

Here is a major difference between a Hot Wife and a cuckolding wife: Often, I read of husbands fucking their wives before they head out on a "date." Cuckolds hardly ever get to touch their wives before a "date," unless it is to clean her, dress her or apply her makeup! And, of course, this makes sense: if her husband really isn't much of a lover, then why would she want to ruin the mood, or take the edge off her anticipation? In my case, about four days before a "date," Sally stops allowing me to touch her or even to see her undressed; in her words, "I'm saving it for him."

In more extreme cases, where the wife has replaced her husband with another man (or men) on a permanent basis, her body may simply be off limits to him at all times. In these cases, the occasional glimpse of a breast or pubic hair can trigger spontaneous orgasm!

"Clean Up the House While I'm Gone"

If the husband acknowledges his sexual inferiority, he may fell compelled to try to make it up to his wife in any way possible. Therefore, he may be among the most obedient husbands on the planet! Remember, hubby gets off on his own sexual failings; therefore, cleaning the house, etc., only serves to remind him that he's doing this because he's not very good in bed. This may be one of the few times you see a man vacuuming with an erection . In addition, hubby may want to do this, as a way of showing his wife that he is still useful, and she should keep him around; any honest cuckold will tell you that there are times he wonders if his loving wife is going to keep loving him when she enjoys her lover's company so much.
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Cuckolding and Swingers- Part 5

2006-05-02T00:03:00.000-04:00

WHAT IS THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN A CUCKOLD AND A MAN WITH A "HOT WIFE"?

Though you could certainly describe the cuckolder as a "hot wife," the difference lies in the original dictionary definition, "a man with an unfaithful wife." A woman crosses over the line into "unfaithful" not when she has sex with another man with her husband's consent, but when she prefers sex with her lover to sex with her husband -- and tells him so.

MAJOR CUCKOLD THEMES

"He's bigger than you"

In spite of all the ads in men's magazines, we haven't found a way to change what God gives us. Few women marry a man because of the size of his penis, but much has been written about how good it feels to many women to be "filled completely." So, wifey goes searching (or the well-behaved cuckold searches for her) for a man who can measure up. Some women find a large penis to be painful or uncomfortable, but if she finds the experience to be fulfilling , hubby must recognize that there is no way on earth that he can offer her what her lover does. In our society, in which "bigger is better," it is truly humiliating for a man to see less between his own legs than he sees on the man between his wife's legs! Not to mention the conversations with her lover, who tells him how good his wife feels "deep inside," and then laughs at the fact that hubby can never, ever know what that feels like. In other words, this man feels parts of your wife's body that you can never touch -- so go sit in the corner, and listen to her make me cum with those places you can't touch!

"He's better than you"

Why wifey would want this is obvious -- what a surprise, after 5, 10 or 20 years of marriage, to learn that sex is more fun than you knew! And for cucky, the embarrassment is even greater than if her lover is bigger: at least if he is bigger, you can claim that there is nothing you can do about it. But if he is better -- especially if he is about the same size as cucky, then the plain truth is, "You are not such a good lover." (Actually, that's the diplomatic truth; the plain truth is that you're a lousy lover!)
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Cuckolding and Swingers- Part 4

2006-04-30T17:27:00.000-04:00

WHY WOULD A WIFE CHOOSE TO CUCKOLD HER HUSBAND?

Many cuckolds describe years and years of asking their wife to have sex with another man. Usually, the wife opposes this, for several reasons. First, it goes against everything that was promised in the marriage vows, and she cannot believe that it will do anything but ruin her marriage. Second, it is often threatening to the wife, as she assumes it is a pretext for the husband to have sex with other women (if you both want to do that, have fun; you're back in the "swinger" category, and this site is not about you). Third, many wives -- especially once they are out of their 20's and no longer look like Barbie -- worry that no other man will find them attractive, and they do not want to set themselves up for a disappointment. Finally, they worry (with good reason) about all the mean, nasty stuff out there: bad people, bad vibes, bad diseases.

So, why do wives say yes? While some do it simply because their husbands are not satisfactory lovers, I believe that most begin (note that I said begin; the reasons change later) to satisfy their husband's burning desire to try this. Also, if they had few sexual experiences before marriage, they may be curious as to what else is out there, and if their sexual experiences have been somewhat tame, they wonder what all the talk is about!

Once the wife begins to see other men, it is another step -- and often, not an easy one -- to cuckold her husband. After all, she loves the guy! (If she does not love him, it's time to head for the marriage counselor or the lawyer again...) It is hard to believe that her husband really wants her to like her lover more, or at least to like sex with her lover more; it is even harder to believe that he really wants to hear that from his wife. Usually, this part begins very slowly, as the wife hesitatingly relates the pleasurable details of her tryst to her husband. She notices his outstanding (!) reaction to what she says, and notices that the more explicit she is, and the more she talks about her pleasure, the more hubby goes crazy. If her husband watches her in bed with her lover, she will be very hesitant to display her pleasure, until he makes it clear that he is very turned on by it!
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Cuckolding and Swingers- Part 3

2006-04-29T19:44:00.000-04:00

Jealousy

Yes, jealousy is a turn-on for cuckolds. In fact, it is probably one of the greatest ones, though few cuckolds have written about it. After all, look what he has lost: his wife's faithfulness, his wife's body (temporarily, if not permananently), his equality as a sexual partner, his dignity... and all these have been given to another man! Personally, when I began to feel jealous, I began to feel truly cuckolded - and very excited!

Voyeurism

Though I think this is secondary to the two reasons above, it is true that there are not many opportunities in life to watch two people having sex. This is why home videos are so popular! But nothing can equal the real thing, life and in front of you... and so, inviting another man into your wife's bed will undoubtedly give you a front-row seat for the festivities.

Fear

One cuckold explained his excitement as "caused by the duality of being both afraid and excited. Fear is a powerful aphrodisiac... maybe my body requires a certain amount of adrenaline, which can only be generated by fear."

What is there to fear? A cuckold can fear (while being turned on by) the thought of being humiliated in front of his wife and her lover; he can fear being told he cannot cum for a specified (and lengthy) period of time. He can fear hearing sounds of pleasure from his wife that he never heard when she was in bed with him. Or, he can just fear the unknown...
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Cuckolding and Swingers- Part 2

2006-04-28T20:09:00.000-04:00

Why Would Someone Choose to be Cuckolded?

Submission

Being cuckolded is often a display of total submissiveness, with the added element being that at least one other person (the lover) knows of the cuckold's role. Cuckolds may take pleasure in serving their wife and, in some cases, her lover as well. If a person wishes to experience submission, bringing breakfast in bed to his wife and her lover would surely fit the bill; and if he wants to feel dominated by his wife, having her tell him to leave them alone so they could make love undisturbed would be almost unbearably exciting! In addition, the knowledge that she can do whatever she wants with regard to sex, while he is restricted to only what she approves for him, is probably the ultimate in submission: he turns over his genitals to her, while she offers no such commitment in return.

Humiliation

Many swingers and alternative-lifestyle adherents draw the line at humiliation, and reject it with disgust. Yet these same people will accept s&m as understandable! Humiliation is, in my opinion, simply mental s&m. Why would someone choose to be "disciplined," and find it to be sexually exciting? If you can understand that, you can understand the lure of humiliation as a sexual stimulus. And if a man seeks to be humiliated, what could be more humiliating than seeing, or hearing, or learning of his wife choosing another man to bed? If the experience includes the wife acknowledging that her lover is better endowed, or a better lover than her husband, the humiliation is complete.
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What Female Swingers Enjoy In Bed

2006-04-27T11:59:00.000-04:00

Cuckolding and Swingers

2006-04-26T18:06:00.000-04:00

Cuckolding is a minor part of the swinging lifestyle but this niche seems to be increasing. It also seems to involve more interracial activity. Here is info regarding this niche:

WHAT IS A CUCKOLD?

The word "cuckold" probably comes from the practice of the cuckoo bird. The female cuckoo mates with an alpha-male, who then moves on to encounters with other females. The female then returns to her mate, and the two of them raise the babies which resulted from mom's "night on the town."

Traditionally, a (human) cuckold was the object of scorn and derision; when it was discovered that a man's wife had found fulfillment in another man's bed, she was an adulteress and he was her cuckold. It was often said that he "left with his tail between another man's legs."

The dictionary defines a cuckold as "a man with an unfaithful wife."

In the context of alternative lifestyles, the cuckold occupies a position somewhere between the traditional definition and that of "swingers." The difference with the first definition is that today's cuckold is both aware of his wife's "infidelity" and is sexually excited by it; the difference with the second definition is that "swingers" are mutually involved, or at least approach the sex bed as equals, which is not the case with a cuckold.

In plain English, a cuckold is a man who stands by and accepts his wife's infidelity, being sexually excited by her actions. He may have normal sexual relations with his wife part of the time, or he may accept that his wife has chosen another man to replace him completely in her sexual bed.
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Nasty Sex Positions

2006-04-25T18:08:00.000-04:00

First, instead of giving your boy oral sex when you're both lying down, have him stand up, then look him in the eye as you make mouth magic. Unexpected eye contact will thrill your guy because it's just so bold on your part.

Another illicit idea: Get on top of your guy in reverse-cowgirl position, facing away from him so you form a T shape. As you get into the deed, lean your upper body forward as low as you can, stretching out against his legs while still straddling his lap (hold his legs or ankles for balance). It's comfortable, G-spot-accessible intercourse that gives him a lewd look at your private parts thrusting on his penis. You're getting off because you're in control, and he's in heaven with an up-close-and-personal view of the action.
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Fetish Play

2006-04-24T16:57:00.000-04:00

What can be a fetish? Well, anything really. There are body part fetishists who worship feet or breasts, buns or hair. Then there are object fetishists who like to be intimate with inanimate objects: the shoes, the panties, the bra, the hat, the handcuffs, the dildos, the cold steel, the cyberskin.

Then there are "action fetishists." The voyeurs who fetishize watching. The exhibitionists who fetishize being watched. The oral and anal sex fetishists. The masturbators of every stroke and style.
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Interracial Swinging

2006-04-23T19:33:00.000-04:00

Interracial swinging is another facet that's open to those in the swinger lifestyle. As in normal society, there are also a vast mixture of ethnicicities within the swinger community. This offers swingers the opportunity to engage in interracial sex encounters without the judgemental eyes society places on those outside of the community.

Many times women have fantacized about having sex with a black or latino male or vise versa. There are also men that like watching and/or participating when other races are involved. Within a swingers community its just like any other sex encounter ... its all for the fun of having sex! I had one veteran offer me this piece of advice: If it can help you explore the erotic sexual side of yourself, and there are no adverse reasons - why not just have fun and try everything?!
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Sexual Fantasy

2006-04-22T21:55:00.000-04:00

Yes, virtually every woman wants or will share her body with another woman. Are you jealous because you get left out? Don't be, most of these women want their man to watch them while they work... or play, as the case may be.

"The idea of touching another soft, hairless body and softly sucking her tongue, amongst other things. Actually that does sound pretty inviting, but won't it be difficult for you guys to sit in the corner and just watch? After all, these women don't want you to participate -- okay, one of them did.
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Menage a Trois

2006-04-21T17:32:00.000-04:00

Ah yes, the ménage-à-trois is no longer just for bohemian swingers wintering in Provence. The ménage-à-trois is now mainstream. Three's Company, isn't it? Conservatives may control the political scenes these days, but the fact is that more and more middle class, middle of the road couples are opening up their relationships to sharing sexual experiences with other people than ever before.

Even the term "swinger" is getting back in the swing of things, accepted as a valid, vibrant tributary to the mainstream of society. And even if most couples won't dare to go "all the way" with in-the-flesh threesome action, many enjoy, struggle with and share the fantasy.
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Swingers and Lingerie

2006-04-20T14:50:00.000-04:00

As you are reading this, women around the world are franticly shopping for lingerie to attract their man's eye. Men love to see their woman wearing a hot little outfit. We see how hot she looks and we know we are about to have sex. Why do women wear lingerie? Let's talk about two of the biggest reasons. One is to make them feel sexy.

Some women even wear lingerie underneath their normal clothes. They like to feel sexy. Nothing feels sexy like a little silk on their skin. I think women do this to help their self esteem. It makes them for confidant throughout the day. She loves the anticipation. She loves to see you drool when she walks into the bedroom with her hot little outfit on. A woman likes to know that she is turning you on. Nothing in life is more important to her. What a great Valentines gift!
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2006-04-19T15:48:00.000-04:00

What Will She Try?

2006-04-18T15:16:00.000-04:00

The following survey was done on Cosmopolitan.com, asking the ladies if they'd be game for putting a little variety into their sex lives. Here's what they said...

Which of the following have you ever tried?

57% - Light Bondage
30% - Exhibitionism
15% - Videotaping
33% - Sex Toys
23% - Role Playing
31% - None of the Above
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Want Sex Every Day?

2006-04-17T23:59:00.000-04:00

A Survey has revealed that more than 1 in 4 women enjoy having sex once a day. A previous survey in 1993 had indicated that 18 percent enjoyed daily sex, where as the most recent survey had shown a jump in that figure to 27 percent. About the same number of men, 31 per cent, think the same, which was the same number from the early nineties.

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Happy Bunny Day!

2006-04-16T20:04:00.000-04:00

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Put The "X" In Sex

2006-04-15T18:27:00.000-04:00

If the mere thought of renting a porno feels smutty, then it's definitely time to pick one up. From the spine-tingling moment you venture into the adult section of the video store to the second you surprise your guy with a skin flick and wait breathlessly for his randy response, taking the plunge into porn will add fiery fervor to your real-life bump and grinds. Like catching an eyeful of your randy neighbors mid-nooky, observing overheated couples and their this-close thrusting onscreen feels totally taboo.
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Swinger Myths

2006-04-14T20:57:00.000-04:00

Swingers have little outside social activity other than swinging.

Again, it is patently false, since most swingers have children, and they have many social activities that they do as a family. What the researchers fail to understand is that swinging is not just about sex, and they assume that whenever swingers get together, it is purely sexual. Swingers do make friends with each other, and they do get together in non-sexual situations. The friendships you can make are so intense that many people tend to spend less time with their old "straight" friends, preferring to do social activities with their swinging friends. There is an openness, sense of fun, and lack of need to censor yourself when you are with swinging friends that is very different from what most people experience with traditional friendships. These are real friendships, not just based on sex.
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Phone Sex Fantasy

2006-04-13T22:46:00.000-04:00

"Interacting via technology rather than face-to-face provides an anonymity that often makes it easier for partners to express their desires," explains Lisa B. Schwartz, Ph.D., a sex therapist in private practice in Pennsylvania. "More couples seem to be exploring this freedom and sharing fantasies this way."

If the thought of partaking in phone play leaves you kind of speechless, this passion plan will loosen you up. First thing in the morning, lock your guy in for the evening with a firm text message. (Cancel your plans. U R mine 2nite.) At noon, divulge more of your pleasure plot in a second text (My place. 8. Bring a necktie and whipped cream).

When he shows up at 7:25 (the man will be eager, girl), grab the props, make him comfortable on the sofa and quickly retreat to another room. Then dial him up on his cell from behind closed doors and tell him step-by-step exactly what you wish you were doing to him ("I want to tie you to my bedpost and lick whipped cream off every last inch of you"). Keep up the delicious banter until he has no choice but to hang up and barge right in.

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Hot Sex Positions

2006-04-12T20:53:00.000-04:00

Erotic instructions: Get your man to lie on his back, then lower yourself onto his lap with your legs perpendicular to his pelvis and guide his penis inside you. Place your hands behind you for support and move up and down his shaft (carefully, so you don't bend it and possibly hurt him), as he steadies you under your legs.

Pleasure payoff for you: The pose lets you thrust deep, then pull back so that just the tip of his penis is inside you. It's a great move if your guy's on the small side or if you crave a tighter fit.

Pleasure payoff for him: Every inch of your V will move up and down along his member & making him feel like he's penetrating you for the first time with each new thrust. And with your legs close together, you'll feel really snug around his penis.
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Living Out Your Fantasies- Part 4

2006-04-11T17:24:00.000-04:00

Take her to a strip joint.... When you suggest the idea of heading out to a nudie bar, chances are she may be somewhat hesitant, thinking that all you want to do is look at other women. But once you make it clear that what you really want to see is her looking at other women, she may suddenly have a different point of view. First, when you get there, let her take it all in and get used to the atmosphere. If she starts getting extremely excited by what's going on, get her a lap dance. Watch as she studies this naked woman dancing in front of her. Yum.
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Living Out Your Fantasies- Part 3

2006-04-10T17:17:00.000-04:00

Dominate her/submit to her.... Whether you want to take control or be controlled, sometimes a little S&M can turn a vanilla experience into something out of this world. Of course, you don't need to drape yourself in leather and put a ball in your mouth, but the option is there if you like. Having one person leading and giving orders and the other following and obeying their "master" can definitely ignite sparks within that you may not have known existed. It is in this sexual mode that you can reveal your fetishes, within reason, and give in to your secret desires. Although most women opt to submit because they're not sure what to do as doms, sometimes handing her the whip will unleash a great goddess. Give it a shot.
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Living Out Your Fantasies- Part 2

2006-04-09T17:05:00.000-04:00

Go to a sex club.... I know what you're thinking; this involves other people, dummy. Well, yes, but that doesn't mean any of them are going to touch, lick, suck, or screw you. But if you have voyeuristic or exhibitionistic tendencies, then here's your opportunity to set your fetishes free.

Dressed in easy-access clothing, head out to a nightclub that's exclusively open to horny couples and single women, and dance, grind and gyrate the night away. Some clubs allow couples to get nasty; others don't, so you'll have to figure out how far you and your woman can go.

The point is that you're both realizing a fantasy in which you can make love, so to speak, and watch others while they watch you.
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Living Out Your Fantasies

2006-04-08T20:20:00.000-04:00

Make your own home movie... Making a movie, one that involves no clothes and plenty of lube, will make you and your woman feel like practiced porn stars. Of course, there doesn't have to be any facials or anal action involved; this is a private scene for two, and you'll be the director, producer and star. Set up your camera so that it's angled to capture your sexual antics and make sure that you leave the mic on so that every moan and groan can be captured as well.
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Bisexuality and Swingers

2006-04-07T08:41:00.000-04:00

In 1984, a research study published some fascinating research on female bisexuality within the swing community. Summarizing:

The prevalence of sexual activity between females in the swing community is extraordinarily high.

It assembled (apparently without difficulty) a sample of 50 women for her study, all of whom had their first experience with female-female sex in the swing community after age 30, and none of whom even fantasized about women before these first experiences.

The study found that ``the generally positive reactions of these subjects to their first sexual experience with other females after a lifetime of strict heterosexuality ... progressed through repeated experience to an overwhelming general rating of excellent,'' that the ``percentage of those whose masturbatory fantasies at times included other females as erotic sex objects rose from 4.5% to 61%,'' and that every one of the women in her study now self-identified as bisexual.

This suggests the swing community might be a stunning example of the impact ``social facilitation'' can have on adult sexual behavior, preference, and identity.
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Enhancing Your Orgasms

2006-04-06T16:28:00.000-04:00

Researchers have found that women who masturbate have more intense orgasms than women who don't. Once you can make yourself climax, it will be easier for you to guide your partner to do the same. "Plus, masturbation increases the flow of blood to the genitals," Kerner says, "and this overall vascularity is important in sexual response." Translation: When your blood is flowing, you'll soon be glowing!
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Weeding Out Fakes- Part 3

2006-04-05T14:49:00.000-04:00

The ad sounds like a porn ad -- If it sounds too good to be true, it probably isn't.

Pictures are too perfect -- Pictures look like they have been taken off a porn site.

Ads are too short -- That doesn't mean that people aren't real. It just means that they didn't put enough thought or effort into their ad and may not be serious about getting responses.

Perfect profile with pictures of a couple -- Be aware if the husband says he has permission from the wife to play alone or the wife is on vacation in Amsterdam and won't be back until 2007.
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