Saturday, August 07, 2010

Swingers Are Happy

Scientific research on swingers in the USA has consistently found that swingers have better pair-bonds than monogamous couples. The most recent and most thorough research found swingers are happier in their relationships than the norm.

60% of swingers said that swinging improved their relationship and only 1.7% said it made their relationship less happy

Monday, August 02, 2010

Types Of Swinging

Although swinging is generally thought of as occurring among couples, there are a number of swinging activities that may include (but are not limited to):

Exhibitionism: having sex with a partner while being watched.

Voyeurism: watching others have sex .

Soft Swinging or Soft Swap: kissing, stroking, or having oral sex with a third or fourth person. Soft swap may be in the form of a threesome, group sex, or the literal swapping of partners.

Full Swap: having penetrative sex with someone other than one's partner. Although this is the commonly understood definition of swinging, it is not necessarily the most common type.

Group Sex: An all-inclusive term for activities involving multiple partners in the same vicinity.

Saturday, July 31, 2010

Spin The Bottle As Swinger Party Game

One of the things that happens at many swinger house parties is that there is inertia among the guests. No one wants to be the first to get things started. So games can be a great icebreaker for those times. This one is spin the bottle adult style.

This game is an old classic. Lots of folks played this game as kids, for kisses, or sometimes for a cheap feel.

The more “grown up” version of the game still works the same in basic mechanics. It’s usually best to have everyone playing sitting on the floor.

All players sit in a circle. After determining who goes first, that player places a bottle on it’s side in the middle of the circle, and gives it a spin. Whoever the bottle neck points to (or closest to) removes an article of clothes. In the event that player has lost all his or her clothes already, that player must perform a “favor” for the spinner.

A simple game for getting your friends naked. That’s all there is to it. Play proceeds in a clockwise manner until everyone is naked.

Game Variations

There are a few possible variations on the game. Rather than proceeding in a clockwise manner, the person who last had the bottle point to them may spin next.

This game can be combined with other classics, such as Truth or Dare, wherein the person the bottle points to is asked the question, or given a dare by the spinner.

Stakes, of course are easily modified to any preference. Spin for kisses, spin for sexual favors, use your imagination.

Thursday, July 29, 2010

No Swinging In Our Town

A controversial social club that advertised on swingers web sites had its zoning application rejected by Emmaus, LeHigh County in Pennsylvania. Hundreds packed a meeting to hear the zoning hearing board's decision.

Many of the people opposed the social club because it was rumored to be a sex club for swingers. One resident said "We don't need this kind of garbage. In my opinion, it's like legalized prostitution. I don't want it in my neighborhood."

Tuesday, July 27, 2010

Swinging Big Business In U.S.

Matt who works as a consultant at a Washington law firm told Reuters that he spends more than $10,000 a year to attend conventions, hotels and clubs where he and his girlfriend can have sex with other partners.

"Any other hobby that I was into at 40 years old is going to cost me $10,000," he told the newspaper. "Dude, I'm addicted to it, there is no doubt about it."

Swinging has turned the lust and passion into a multimillion dollar business. Lifestyles Organization, the nation's largest swinger services company, has annual sales of about $15 million.

Rick Conner, a swinger and author of an advice book for such couples, puts the number of swingers at 100,000 in the U.S. However, others have suggested the number is in the low millions

Saturday, July 24, 2010

Naked Swingers Flee Fire

Firefighters in Montreal are investigating the cause of a fire that forced those inside a swingers club in Montreal to flee in various states of undress. At the time of the fire, there were three employees and seven customers. Five of the clients were trapped in rooms on a second floor.

A fire department spokesperson was quoted as saying "They had sheets on them but they didn't have a lot of clothes on coming down (the ladder)."

Wednesday, July 21, 2010

Posting A Swinger Profile

One of the best ways when considering joining a swinger site is to join up for FREE! Give the site a try and see how you like it. After joining a site, one of the mistakes often made by new swingers is rushing to get a profile up with little or no thought or planning.

One of the first things that you discover after hearing them say no one is looking at our profile is that the profile has no photos, poor headings and just a couple of lines for the description!

Tuesday, July 13, 2010

Monday, July 12, 2010

Cougars Have More Sex

So do cougars have more sex? According to an article published in the July issue of Personality and Individual Differences, they do. The article points out that evolutionary forces also push women to be more sexual. The study done by a University of Texas psychologist found that women in their 30s and early 40s are significantly more sexual than younger women.

The article reports that women ages 27 through 45 are having more sexual fantasies than women ages 18 through 26 but also having more sex, period. In addition, they are more willing than younger women to have casual sex, even one-night stands.

Sunday, July 11, 2010

Chinese Swinger Jailed

A Chinese twice-divorced computer science professor has been sentenced to three-and-a-half years in prison for being a member of clubs that practiced group sex and partner swapping.. The fifty-three year old according to reports had been a member of informal swingers clubs that practiced group sex and partner swapping. He also supposedly organized and engaged in at least 18 orgies, most of them in the two-bedroom apartment in Nanjing where he lived with his mother. The sentence of three and a half years in prison is a severe penalty for a crime that the Chinese government calls “crowd licentiousness.”

Married Women Tend To Have Affairs With Married Men

Married women tend to have affairs with married men - rather than with single men - for several reasons. Married women and married men have a similar amount of discretionary time available.

While much of their time may be committed to their families, both can secretly take a few hours to be together during the day, in the evening or on the weekend. Married women believe married men will not become overly dependent on them, that they won't tell and that they are less likely to have a sexually transmitted disease. Who's On Now